3 Ways to Look and Feel Your Sexiest
3 Ways to Look and Feel Your Sexiest
Being sexy means much more than “looking hot.” Take a closer look for your well-being.
While I write mostly erotica on Sexy Psyche, I want to include more tips for personal wellbeing and relationships. Enjoy.
This is under Relationships / Sexual Health
What does being sexy mean to you? Don’t dismiss it as vanity and conceit or just thinking about parts of the body.
Instead, consider being your sexiest self as a form of well-being. After all, the feeling begins on our insides and can send positive vibes that we’re comfortable with ourselves.
Our sexiness is a positive message that lets others notice us and feel an attraction that can be a general positive feeling and not necessarily sexual.
Where does sexy begin?
In our own thoughts and perception.
Smiling is Sexy and so are Jokes
Do you smile confidently? If yes, great.
A smile is one of the most attractive features anyone can have. A smile lights up our eyes and the combination is anyone’s sexiest feature in my opinion.
Our smile and eyes are what people see first and can put others at ease and look attractive. Let others think, “I’d like to be around that person.”
I found this in Quora from 9 years ago while looking up the search term the science of smiling: a smile has emotional warmth and positive energy.
Business Insider quoted a study saying that “men were more successful at getting women’s numbers when they had recently told a joke to a group of friends” Business Insider, Feb 4, 2020.
That doesn’t mean telling a string of one-liners but being personable and approachable.
If you’re not comfortable with your smile, then what can you improve?
Cosmetic dentistry is often seen as vain, but you can easily have chipped teeth repaired or teeth whitened slightly.
And a smile reveals confidence, another sexy trait.
Confidence as Sexy
Who’s most likely to get a loan from a bank?
Someone who’s needy and desperate and begging for money? Or someone who’s confident in their business model or personal finances and has the cash flow and equity behind them?
Being personally confident is like looking attractive to a lender. If you’re needy and desperate you’re going to be a turn-off.
What if you’re sexually submissive and want to explore or you need someone to dominate and control you? Confidence is still important. Quality people are attracted to other quality people.
Confidence is an attitude that you’re not troubled by what others think. You don’t appear desperate.
A confident person sets the standard since they’re not looking for approval from others.
Men should practice being confident to look attractive.
Here are tips from a writer on Medium in an article that has quite a lively title:
having a purpose instead of chasing women or pleasure; don’t appear needy or desperate; talk sparingly so you’re not blabbing but you speak purposefully; be content in your current situation even if you’re looking for relationships (From 4 Secretly Shocking Daily Habits of Highly Seductive Men that Make Them Panty-Dropping Sexy).
Dress Neatly
I work out of the house and I don’t need to dress to impress my dogs and cats, but I should think about my wife. She doesn’t want me to be a slob or some across as disheveled. She also doesn’t want me to spend much money on clothes or even wear expensive rings or watches.
If you practice smiling confidently and carrying yourself with poise then you don’t need to look like all your clothes were just bought yesterday.
Anyone can dress neatly on a budget, especially if you live in an area like Southern California with its multitude of thrift stores carrying nice quality clothing.
Clothes should enhance your personality.
Personally, I like wearing a layered look with different colored T-shirts from Old Navy and a casual buttoned shirt over that. Simple. Yet, I feel confident and well dressed.
Try this:
Have something business neat for the office or client meetings; fun street wear; and a suit you can pull out now and then.
That tip comes from: www.startedwithswag.com
If you’re in a long-term relationship, make sure you dress for the one you’re with. Be conscious and aware of what they like to see on you or ask their opinion.
It’s not hard to feel sexy or convey a sexy attitude. Be approachable, practice smiling, and be confident versus needy.
Do you have other tips to share?
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